Window theme not changing in gnome shell remix 12.10

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http://askubuntu.com – As the title implies, I'm on Ubuntu Gnome Shell Remix 12.10 and not able to change the window theme for themes I have downloaded. In the tweak-tool, I am able to set the GTK theme to a theme I have downloaded, but it does not work with that theme's respective window border. These are all themes that should be able to work. Also, I am able to select themes (window and gtk) that are in /usr/share/themes/. Moving my downloaded themes to there works, but I'd rather be able to use it from ~/.themes. (HowTos)