Missed appointments reminder list (please read all so that you fully understand, please, thanks)

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http://androidforums.com – First.. yes, there is an agenda list that gives us a listing of all of the past reminders & current but.. 1. I have to look for it that way, I'm not being reminded of it & 2. It still a pain to re-appoint everything. The dilemma: As it stands now, upon reminder time, an unideal window comes up (small font red on blinding white) with a list of all reminders. A few times i have selected the wrong reminder to act upon. It will constantly annoy me to take an action every 5 minutes (which i understand) but if i dismiss it, i am never reminded again. I didn't want to be annoyed (General)