Hosting new servers. How can I use load balancer?

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http://serverfault.com – I am going to host few servers (MS-Windows) listening on certain port to which my clients would connect. I will have to have a load balancer to distribute connections amongst these servers. I have gathered knowledge about load balancer's and have learned few things. But I am not sure if my understanding is correct. Hence, sharing it here so that someone experienced can please verify the same? Also, if anyone in future doing server hosting will get helped with this. In the load balancer I can configure server names, port and max number of connections I want to allow per server When clients co (HowTos)