Enable php-fpm on php 5.3.13 from remi repo

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http://serverfault.com – I installed php 5.3.13 x64 from the remi repo on a CentoOS 5.6 server. It runs fine but using the apache2hanndler. I want to run it with php-fpm. So, I installed php-fpm but it doesn't work. I have always enabled the apache2handler and my phpinfo() shows that the php isn't configured with --with-fpm what should I do? (HowTos)